Perseverance
It might be my favorite word. I’ve blogged about it before, here
(talking about querying) and here
(talking about rejection).
Recently, a query godmother client emailed me about her
desire to quit. She didn’t feel like she was ever going to get the query right.
It just wasn’t coming together.
And I immediately replied to tell her to NOT QUIT!
It’s so easy to look around and see what feels like everyone
on twitter announcing that they’ve just signed with an agent. But listen, those
people have their own journey. Maybe that woman who just announced her new
agent has been querying for ten years. Or maybe she’s only sent one query. You
just can’t compare yourself to someone else’s process, because you have no
idea.
I do know one thing. No one who quit ever published a book.
A couple of years ago, I polled
agented authors about how many queries it took them to get an agent. The
results were surprising--we're talking hundreds. Years. Multiple manuscripts.
The thing you have to keep in mind (and it's hard, I know, to not feel that
pang of jealousy) is that you have no idea what someone else's journey is like.
Here's the post with those results. It's not meant to be depressing, only
honest. I’ll say it again, no one who gave up ever published. http://krisasselin.blogspot.com/2014/01/how-many-queries-does-it-take-to-get.html
Persevere. Keep writing. Keep querying. Keep connecting
through your writing community. Keep learning, growing, submitting.
As Dory would say, “just keep swimming.”
Kristine Carlson Asselin writes Young Adult and Middle-Grade fiction. Her YA novel Any Way You Slice It (Bloomsbury Spark) is currently available and her debut middle-grade, The Art of the Swap (co-authored
with Jen Malone) has recently sold to Simon and Schuster for
publication in 2017. Kristine is also the author of sixteen nonfiction
children’s books for the elementary school library market. Kris does
query package critiques under the alter-ego @QueryGodMother and loves doing school visits for kids all over New England.
To keep up with Kristine, follow her on Twitter at @KristineAsselin and check out her website at www.kristineasselin.com.