tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post4154355016548965374..comments2023-08-26T10:09:43.343-04:00Comments on Kristine Carlson Asselin: ValidationKristine Asselinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18257286523945921891noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-41098181528275161462010-05-03T19:50:19.071-04:002010-05-03T19:50:19.071-04:00Tina - Connecting goes a long way toward validatio...Tina - Connecting goes a long way toward validation. I'm also looking forward to meeting some blogger friends! Can't wait!Kristine Asselinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18257286523945921891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-71568030085364855432010-05-03T15:36:43.281-04:002010-05-03T15:36:43.281-04:00I was just at a conference and it is awesome to co...I was just at a conference and it is awesome to connect. It is those things that we can relate on (like there isn't any monetary validation for years and years) that make me feel all the more like a writer. <br /><br />I think it is hard. But getting better all the time.<br /><br />Cool about getting paid and the talk with the agent. I cannot wait to hear about the conference. I am jealous of that. You are going to get to see some cool bloggers AND they are going to get to see you!Tina Laurel Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04482757085942311091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-39934465206186590292010-05-03T10:14:06.219-04:002010-05-03T10:14:06.219-04:00Ansha - Yes! Someone who "knows" what t...Ansha - Yes! Someone who "knows" what they're doing says you've got something! <br /><br />Jen - it sounds like you've got more confidence than some of us! Hold onto it!<br /><br />Jonathan - getting an agent would be great -- but you're already a writer!<br /><br />Laura - the carrot dangling (or chocolate) is what has kept me going. Each little piece of validation along the way keeps us from putting the pen down.Kristine Asselinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18257286523945921891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-7066118561560087862010-05-03T09:04:23.299-04:002010-05-03T09:04:23.299-04:00I think at each stage we need that bit of validati...I think at each stage we need that bit of validation dangling in front of us to keep us going. At first it's just getting a personalized rejectiong, then it's getting nice comments, then a revision request, then an agent...it changes as we go.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-469117851527557912010-05-02T23:47:09.998-04:002010-05-02T23:47:09.998-04:00My threshold is getting an agent. After that, it&...My threshold is getting an agent. After that, it'll be selling my book, then getting published, then finishing the next book. I'll look for validation along the way because it just feels so good.Jonathon Arntsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366218140886892757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-23022698955711932452010-05-02T12:13:58.445-04:002010-05-02T12:13:58.445-04:00Validation always feels great but it's best to...Validation always feels great but it's best to be confident in yourself so that you can push yourself through the tough times. Having a husband on the side to help support your goals is always great.<br /><br />I felt like an author the first time I put my words to the page, I finished my first draft and now well into revisions. That in itself is an amazing feeling.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03667521490706435608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-39447632212513376542010-05-02T09:53:58.016-04:002010-05-02T09:53:58.016-04:00My moment was when an editor asked for a full. Th...My moment was when an editor asked for a full. That's when it hit me. I had actually written something that someone wanted to read... someone who reads books for a living! I've been floating on that cloud for a year now. :)Ansha Kotykhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10845444642934306384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-60842624344146878012010-05-02T07:36:58.219-04:002010-05-02T07:36:58.219-04:00Nadir - my spouse took my "hobby" seriou...Nadir - my spouse took my "hobby" seriously after the first paycheck. LOL.<br /><br />Aubrie - Thanks! Holding that book will feel fabulous! <br /><br />Carole Ann - You're right, it's all about how seriously you take yourself, isn't it? <br /><br />Kaylie - conferences are well worth the investment in yourself and your craft. If not for last year's regional, I wouldn't have met my CPs and without them would have made the progress I did this year! Keep doing it!Kristine Asselinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18257286523945921891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-26703359385410900952010-05-01T22:54:03.422-04:002010-05-01T22:54:03.422-04:00It's hard to justify spending money on confere...It's hard to justify spending money on conference fees, memberships, etc. when I haven't gotten paid for my novel writing yet. But I do it anyway, because I know it can help me get there. I won't call myself an author yet, but definitely a writer.KAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01492662417610004495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-63643331341892192232010-05-01T17:36:11.399-04:002010-05-01T17:36:11.399-04:00I think it was when I had my first poem published,...I think it was when I had my first poem published, many moons ago! But I agree, you are a writer, once you begin producing work in any quantity and take the task seriously, you have joined the ranks of real authors.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07957545161716269528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-12209538623923394962010-05-01T17:26:54.120-04:002010-05-01T17:26:54.120-04:00Probably when I got paid for my first short story....Probably when I got paid for my first short story. Paid means, got actual, real money! <br /><br />But I'm still looking forward to the day I can hold my book in my hands...<br /><br />That sounds like a great phone call!Aubriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10884036126491922530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4926052979661322999.post-38747009147906759242010-05-01T17:16:44.381-04:002010-05-01T17:16:44.381-04:00Sounds like you got enough validation to make you ...Sounds like you got enough validation to make you feel like a writer and that's what's important.<br /><br />It does vary from person to person.<br /><br />Mine was getting that first paycheck!notesfromnadirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09904500676081267972noreply@blogger.com